J-Bar Blog - 2010
Sunday
7th February 2010
At the Freecycle Shop today my star finds included a Magimix ice cream maker, scraps (the paper scrapbooking kind), an
ornamental birdcage, a raincoat in a backpack and Femme Fatale: Grrrl Power CDs.It was lovely to see so Julie, Anne B, Susan, Denise, Jane, Anne G, Jan, Nicky, Carmel, Annemarie et al, although it was a little too busy to make any introductions.
I'd like to hold another free shop in the day centre but next time I'd like to offer refreshments and perhaps have some helpers to organise specific zones and help match up donations with people's specific wants. A fun and successful first attempt even if I say so myself.
Of course, like all my best ideas, I nicked it from someone else! The Forest Cafe have been running a weekly (Sunday) Free Shop for yonks.
Date for your diary: Femstruation Week, 13-20 February - organised by those bloody Edinburgh AnarchoFeminists.
Saturday
6th February 2010
Happy Birthday Lucy!We celebrated Lucy's sixth birthday with a trip to Deep Sea World. We all really enjoyed it and Lucy particularly liked seeing the star fish.
North Queensferry is a nice town with some interesting monuments like the old harbour light tower and the traveller's well and lovely old buildings. We had lunch at the Albert Hotel (apparently a haunt of Iain Banks). It was fair-enough fare but not exactly a gastronomic triumph.
Friday
5th February 2010
What a lovely surprise I had when I went into the Small World
this morning. All the shelves have been rearranged and there
is a
table laden with trinkets and jewellery just inviting you to
investigate further. There are no awkward passageways to
negotiate and there is even a clothes rail. Wow!
It's
brilliant to see the volunteers so charged with enthusiam and energy!Website of the day: Hotpot - Fife Contemporary Art & Craft's exhibition of works by Ruth Archibald-Swaans, Gayle Chong Kwan, Alex Frost, Alex Wilde, Rebecca Wilson exploring the emotional relationship between food and people.
Thursday
4th February 2010
First thing this morning I had a meeting in the Small World
shop. It was very constructive. Instead of talking
about
things that "should be done" we actually talked about "how" they could
be done and, better still, got a date in the diary to make the changes
happen!After a really quite negative few days, today was really positive. For the first time in ages, I actually felt like a worthwhile human being and that I was making a difference. (Ironic really as my head was very thick after last night).
Meadowmill bakery must be making strawberry tarts this morning. A cloying fruity smell is wafting down the road.
Website of the day: I Have - hands up if you can help these charities out. Current requests include an Answermachine with fax, a balance beam, a digital camera
Wednesday
3rd February 2010
I had the morning from hell. After eventually getting all
children despatched in not quite clean, almost matching socks and
unironed trousers we returned to the house no fewer than three times
to retrieve forgotten schoolbags, wash dirty faces etc. When
a
day starts off this badly it's fair to assume it's going to get worse.This afternoon while I bathed Lucy and Georgie, I went down downstairs to answer the door. I had barely signed for a parcel when Lucy shouted "Mum, there is blood in the bath". I raced upstairs to discover Georgie had cut her legs with my razor.
Reasons to be cheerful #1: I saw a sneak preview of the cover of Annemarie's latest book Ushig. It features a very scary looking horse.
Reasons to be cheerful #2: My outfits have arrived from Rupali (Sarvika in Chiku; Ashara in Aqua and Anju in Black with Blue).
Reasons to be cheerful #3: The first 2010 meeting of the East Lothian Book Club for Fabulous Women was a success (I think. It's hard to remember. Four large glasses of wine = erm, mostly blank bits really).
The books we are reading this month are Gods in Alabama and Poppy Shakespeare. I'm going to have to stop reading The Satanic Verses which I'm only half way though. I don't like stopping and starting books but Salman Rushdie isn't exactly a quick read.
We also got copies of "Carry a Poem", the One Book - One Edinburgh publication which was nice.
Website of the day: Belkiz Feedaway - a portable highchair made from recycled cardboard
Tuesday
2nd February 2010
It's really frustrating to find a good campaign (for instance, The Big
Draw, Chatterbox
Challenge, Fairtrade
Fortnight etc)
and search "Find
Events Near You" only to discover that there are none.
Which is why I end up organising something.
Which I why my house is a mess.
Which got me thinking...isn't there an East Lothian Council wage slave being paid to do this sort of thing?
Website of the day: Cloud Attack - a fun game from the Met Office for wee folk
Monday 1st
February 2010
If I devoted every waking minute
to domestic
drudgery, I am certain that four out of five people in the household
would be quite happy...I bought some fingerless gloves and a hat from Carousel in the High Street.
Website of the day: Boom Boom Cards - Intentional Acts of Kindness. Be an Agent of Altruism and get your deck of 26 cards featuring acts of guerrilla goodness.
Sunday
31st January 2010
All my good work with Emily was undone this morning and the
bickering and squabbling as started anew.I used to hate coming back from the Small World to find everyone had fallen out and it was up to me to restore order and harmony. I'm giving up working in the shop, but I suspect that nothing will change, apart from the fact that I will have no 'me' time. The current situation is becoming injurious to my mental health.
It wasn't all doom and gloom though, Laura and Kev came round for lunch bringing with them lovely cheesecake.
Website of the day: DoGood - I can't praise this highly enough! Replaces generic adverts with non-profit ones (I'm discovering all sorts of fabby and interesting sites). It turns your everyday web browsing into charitable donations. What's not too love?!
Saturday
30th January 2010
Emily and I spent the day together and it has been really
nice. It began with my shift in The Small World where I was
very glad of an extra pair of hands when I discovered there were two
orders to be made up. From there we popped into the library to say goodbye to Nigel, Lucy and Georgie. I bumped into Anne (sporting a fabby new crop) who was picking up copies of Poppy Shakespeare
and Gods
in Alabama
for our
next meetup. We got a train to Edinburgh, feasted on Burger King, bought Millies Cookies, went to Emily's favourite sweet shop and then on to the Mound Precinct.
We met up with Jane and Ilka at the RSA and looked around 'Solutions', an exhibition of contemporary Scottish watercolours. Emily wasn't impressed with Eileen Lawrence's Nature Red ("anyone could do that!"). She was more enthused by Adrian Wiszniewski's brightly coloured works featuring doe-eyed children in a stylised landscape. Eddie Summerton's The Empty Nests looked familiar, I'd seen them at last summer's Heavy Metal Mouth exhibition.
We then moved on to the Turner watercolours. Being the last day of the annual display, it was mobbed. On our way to the gift shop, Ilka, Jane and I discussed our favourites. We all particularly liked the paintings depicting Venice and discovered we had all been to the City on Water. It was definately time for a blether so we had coffee in Hendersons and got to know Ilka a bit better. (in common with my other German friends, she is lovely and uber-efficient). After saying Auf Wiedershen to our newest Fab, Jane, Emily and I went to Paperchase. Predictably, Emily thought this was the best place she had ever been to.
Emily was so happy she practically skipped back to the station with Millies Cookies, a Whimsical Wonderball, and a whole heap of gorgeous stationery. Our mum and daughter day had been really nice and this evening she talked to me, really talked. And I really listened.
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It is the biggest full moon of the year tonight - the Wolf Moon.
Website of the day: Mailchimp - free email marketing. Store up to 500 subscribers. Send up to 3,000 emails a month for FREE (thanks Nicky).
Friday
29th January 2010
I'm feeling a bit better than I have felt all week.
Unfortunately, it is Lucy's turn to get the sniffles and she
is
off school today.I spent far too long on Google Street view after discovering that Prestonpans is now included. Interesting sights including a man looking through a rubbish bin on Preston Road, our lovely neighbours tending their garden, the In-Bloomers hard at work at Cockenzie Memorial Garden and, my favourite, a lady waiting for a bus, oblivious to Percy the Gnome sitting atop the Northfield bus shelter.
Wow!, my sister has updated her blog. Whatever next. Hen's teeth?
Website of the day: RNLI SOS - clever events idea generator - Sell Our Stuff/Share Our Soup/Screen Old Shows etc etc
Thursday
28th January 2010
The same parents who were yesterday exclaiming that
"someone
else" must re re-infecting their little darlings with head lice (yeah,
and your kid's poop smells of roses no doubt) were whingeing again
today. The subject for debate was immigrants who, as every Daily Mail
reader will tell you, get given everything for free and blah blah
blah...I left them to their Rivers of Bloodfest while I waited for Lucy who came bounding towards me with a big smile on her face.
I gave her the little mermaid that I made this morning and had added her face to it. She clasped it going up the road and was very silent. When we got home she was quite tearful. "Mum, I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I don't like it's face". I assured her it was fine and promised to find another photograph that she liked better (I didn't say "I don't want to hurt your feelings, but it's your face").
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Prestonpans said goodbye to one of its eminent citizens today. He was greatly respected and will be sorely missed.
The element of 'service' is needed in communities. People should take less and give more. Anything less is a disservice to your town.
If you don't live in the place you love, then love the place you live. Embrace it. Be part of it. Serve it.
Wednesday
27th January 2010
I've got a cold. So has Lucy. It was
very tempting to
keep her off school but as I had a meetup, I
packed her off to school with the promise that her teacher would phone
me if she go worse. I picked up some Otravine from Boots that
cleared my head a bit and waited at the Scrap Store. And
waited.
The new member didn't show up. I had a good look round though, and got some nice red fabric for valentines's day crafting and some mermaid templates. I met Nicky there and had a coffee with her in the Brunton. I felt guilty for not finishing my scone. Perhaps there should be a fine for uncleared plates (although having read Freakonomics I suspect that would encourage more waste).
I tuned into East Coast FM today (you can also listen to it from the East Lothian Buzz site) and Tina LePage played a song for Georgie who was thrilled to hear her name.
Website of the day: Low Impact Living (Courses in Scotland) - from 'How to keep pigs' to "make your own soap' - all at Gorgie City Farm. I love the 'How to be make Wood Burner from a Gas Bottle'
Tuesday
26th January 2010
Random stuff in my head (not necessarily on my head):I think I could set up a headlice debugging clinic. Seriously. People are quite reluctant/don't know how to properly check their kids heads.
What is with the trend for 'pimp my'? The connotations are so ugly and negative (and already sounding hackneyed).
Where have I posted event listings for the 'Free Shop'? The time has changed to a more family-friendly 2-4 (still on 7th Feb).
How many more keys have to be lost from this laptop before I give up? (It is missing the g, h, x, c, v, b, n and a space bar)
Is there a polite way to say "Shit, or get off the pot"?
Does moaning ever achieve anything?
Website of the day: Go Fourth - the campaign for a Labour fourth term
Monday
25th January 2010
To A Louse. (On seeing one on a lady's bonnet at church)
Ha! Where are you going, you crawling wonder?
Your impudence protects you sorely,
I can not say but you swagger rarely
Over gauze and lace,
Though faith! I fear you dine but sparingly
On such a place
You ugly, creeping, blasted wonder,
Detested, shunned by saint and sinner,
How dare you set your foot upon her -
Such fine a lady!
Go somewhere else and seek your dinner
On some poor body
Off! in some beggar's temples squat:
There you may creep, and sprawl, and scramble,
With other kindred, jumping cattle,
In shoals and nations;
Where horn nor bone never dare unsettle
Your thick plantations
Now hold you there! you are out of sight,
Below the falderals, snug and tight;
No, faith you yet! you will not be right,
Until you have got on it ---
The very topmost, towering height
Of misses bonnet.
My sooth! right bold you set your nose out,
As plump and gray as any gooseberry:
O for some rank, mercurial resin,
Or deadly, red powder,
I would give you such a hearty dose of it,
Would dress your breech!
I would not have been surprised to spy
You on an old wife's flannel cap:
Or maybe some small ragged boy,
On his undervest;
But Miss's fine balloon bonnet! fye!
How dare you do it.
O Jenny do not toss your head,
And set your beauties all abroad!
You little know what cursed speed
The blastie's making!
Those winks and finger-ends, I dread,
Are notice takiing!
O would some Power the gift to give us
To see ourselves as others see us!
It would from many a blunder free us,
And foolish notion:
What airs in dress and gait would leave us,
And even devotion!
Happy Burns Day!
Sunday
24th January 2010
I am no cook. My signature dish is a crisp
sandwich. Notwithstanding, even I can make a
pancake. In Scotmid today I saw a packet of pancake mix and I
thought to myself "even I
can make a pancake". For people who find the packet mix a little taxing, there was also the option to buy a bottle containing pancake mixture, all ready to pour.
Then I went to the chiller cabinet where they had pre-made pancakes all ready to go in a microwave. Are people really so lazy and inept?
Website of the day: Punks Not Dad - middle-aged anarchists
Saturday
23rd January 2010
I used my time in the Small World to have a declutter, do
some general tidying and sprucing up. By the end of my shift
I
could actually imagine the shop with a coffee machine, some samples of
biscuits and a pot plant or two.Back home the mood was oppressive, the house was a tip and everyone had fallen out. I was tempted to walk straight back out the door and jump on a 26. Instead, I had a very firm talk with everyone about the need to work together as a team and order was restored over lunch.
Nigel went to the Goth this evening for Johnston's 50th birthday bash and I had a quiet night in.
Website of the day: Wallpapered dumpsters - that's tarted up skips to thee and me.
Friday
22nd January 2010
A couple of the Fabs have lots in common with each other
but
haven't met yet and the social engineer in me can't wait to introduce
them because I know they will get on really well. Or will
they?
Whenever someone tells me I will "really get on with XYZ" I
usually don't! Often
when someone says that XYZ is "really funny" I meet them and discover
that their 'humour' is really quite crude. Same
goes for books. I can't remember the
last time I enjoyed a book that someone said I would love.Putting like-minded socially-aware folk in touch with one another is the Book Club's raison d'être. However, I think the word 'Fabulous' is not doing us any favours and conjures up the Absolutely Fabulous indulgent pampered lifestyle. I've changed the 'About Us' info to stress that we have more in common with Joanna Lumley, the human rights and animal activist, than Patsy, her AbFab character.
Having received a deliberately misleading letter and a phone call about a meeting in the Labour Club this evening, Nigel went there. Only to discover that the intention was to disrupt rather than convene a meeting. Nigel wasn't impressed. Neither am I. .
Date for your diary: World Pillowfight Day - Saturday 3rd April - Edinburgh's pillowfight takes place at Mound Precinct, outside the Galleries. Bring a pillow.
Thursday
21st January 2010
Good grief, it's must be a slow news week. Our
local paper reported "Tranent
confectioner to stock Creamola Foam" and "Communion token fetched
£19.99 on ebay".I ventured into The Filling Station for the first time. There is normally a huge queue whenever I go past and I've heard great things about it. I bought a slice of mandarin cheesecake and a jam and cream-filled fruit scone. Both were quite nice (I shared with Georgie, I'm no a gannet) but were ridiculously over-packaged in polystyrene containers, came with a plastic fork and handed over in a polythene bag.
Lucy and Georgie can get a bit excited when we call into the Small World and are always bursting to tell whoever is on duty about their day at school. The volunteers are always so patient and kind with them. Today it was Dave and Sandra who were on duty and they gave them some chocolate peanuts.
Emily came home with the proof of her school photo today - beautiful as always.
This evening, once the kids were asleep, I churned out handmade posters for a Free Shop as we listened to Nigel's Spotify playlist. Are we the coolest couple ever? I know so.
Website of the day: Withered Hand - You heard it hear first: this band are going to be massive.
Wednesday
20th January 2010
I don't like talking on the telephone and tend not to instigate
telecons if I can avoid it. This morning I received a phone
call
from Ros Parkyn about the Three
Harbours Arts Festival.
It was so much more productive than emails going
back and
forth and, while we were talking, we were both coming up with new
ideas. Ordinary people will at this point be saying "well, doh!" but
I'm out of the habit of using the phone to discuss stuff.If I'm a little quiet or reticent at drawing attention to myself, Georgie certainly makes up for it. As we were walking along the High Street, she noticed council workers in a cherry picker taking down the Christmas decorations. She shouted at the top of her voice "Evil Builders!"
This evening we celebrated Vasant Panchami. As is traditional we honoured Saraswati by eating yellow food (yellow split peal dhal and turmeric coloured rice) and wearing yellow clothes.
Website of the day: Flipping Heck - learning to be productive, one step at a time.
Tuesday
19th January 2010
As I marched the girls round to the playground another mum
muttered something about barging past (I hadn't). I stopped
and
turned on my heels and challenged her. She looked startled and responded aggressively "Don't you start on me, I've already had enough this morning....[tails off unintelligibly]". I stand my ground and wait.
She muttered something and looked around before nodding her head in the direction of another mum and said "I was talking about her". An exchange took place about manners. I agreed with her that children need to learn a few lessons before adding in an even tone "We women should be supporting each other and setting the example, not squabbling with each other". She wandered off in the other direction clearly suspecting I was some sort of crazy person. Our paths crossed again later than morning and we introduced ourselves properly, all smiles, no hard feelings. Some days I amaze even myself.
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One of the Fab Wifies is going to Ghana at the end of Febrary. The region she will visit is one of the poorest and education is a high priority. If you are able to drop off some school supplies (e.g. pens, pencils, paints, school bags, math sets and calculators etc) chez J-Bar please get in touch one way or t'other.
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I'm sure I saw Olive from On the Buses in Lidl this morning.
Website of the day: Cloth Kits - fun clothing kits for you to cut and sew at home
Monday
18th January 2010
We were so late for school this morning that I was running in the
gate as the other parents were coming out. Elaine passed me a bag of
clothes for Lucy which was very kind of her. It was also a
funny coincidence as my next stop was to meet up with Nicky
Orr of
Frugal Cool
to blether about, amongst other things, her plan to organise a clothes
swish for kids. There's nothing quite like a cappuccino and a plan for world domination (or at least a Sustainable East Lothian) to kick Blue Monday into touch. After saying goodbye to Nicky I looked around the fundraising shop in the Hollies Day Centre and some of the charity shops. I bought two new, boxed presents for 49p and £1.29.
Thanks to FUSShop for sending me two back issues of Rugged so quickly. I'm not really a skateboard punkrocker but I do like this stuff.
Quote of the day: "Life’s most persistent and urgent question is: What are you doing for others?" Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Sunday
17th January 2010
We met Jane and Chris at the train station for our walk up to Fa'side.
It was an official 'Meetup' of East Lothian Book Club
for Fabulous Women (and their fabulous families).
It was nice. Jane's lemon drizzle cake was
divine.
Saturday
16th January 2010
I took Georgie to the Small
World shop with me. As I unlocked the doors and
opened the blinds she said "I
don't think we are allowed to be here when the ladies aren't in".
I explained that today we
were the ladies.
She looked doubtful until I let her run riot with the pricing
gun. It was quite boring for her though, especially as there
were
no customers. We bumped into Erica who gave us a lift home. She was rewarded for her kindness by Georgie being sick in the car.
Friday
15th January 2010
I got quite a shock to discover we had a lot more stick
insects nymphs
that I previously thought. I counted around 25.
There might be more,
it's difficult to count them! Equally surprising is the amount of traffic to the site - we've had over 15000 visitors since November 2007.
Hello! Mirëdita, Ahalan,Parev, Zdravei, Nei, Dobrư den, Goddag, Goede dag, Hallo, Saluton, Hei, Bonjour, Guten Tag, Gia'sou, Aloha, Shalom, Namaste, Jó napot, Góđan daginn, Aksunai, Kon-nichiwa, Dzien' dobry , Olá ,Bună ziua, Zdravstvuyte, Hej, Sa-wat-dee, Merhaba, Vitayu, Xin chàom, Hylo, Sawubona! I'm not sure what brought you to our humble corner of t'Internet, but welcome and I hope you enjoy your stay.
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I like words with more than one meaning. These are my favourites: withdrawn ("there are calls for troops to be withdrawn"); outstanding ("your report is outstanding"); appealing ("I am appealing to you").
Thursday
14th January 2010
A strange day. I'm full of despondency and can't quite get
out of it. First, I found myself in the strange position of being a table away from a Meetup member yet not actually meeting up.
Secondly, I visited Fay and Allan which was pleasant enough but the moment Georgie finished her bottle of blackcurrant juice she went bonkers. I mean, seriously hyper to the point where she was behaving like a drunk. It was really quite distressing.
Finally, Nigel was late home again so our Pongal celebrations were delayed - but our feast was nice. I used the celery I bought from Roots and Fruits this morning to make this raita.
The third day of Pongal is Maatu Pongal when the cows have a day off and are pampered. Seriously. They are cleaned, and fed specially prepared food and they are adorned with garlands.
I have Twitter to thank for that info. It is also to thank for bringing my mood down further: someone's vitriolic outpourings in which they refer to young children as "little cows". They should perhaps make it clear this is their own personal Twidiotic view and not that of the children's organisation which they represent (and which receives public money).
It has been a strange day. I wish I was in Tamil Nadu.
Website of the day: Barker Family Show Cattle - udderly ridiculous and just for my own a-moo-sement. I'm really milking it now.
Wednesday
13th January 2010
I went to Borders Scrap Store and picked up a variety of bits
and
bobs including some pieces of lambswool. I don't have any
definate plans for any of it other than I want to make my sister
'something' for her birthday. I hadn't really paid much attention to the former Fisherrow School before. It has a pair of interesting domes or cupolas or minaret (architectural terms aren't my strong point) . It's amazing how many gorgeous features you spot when you look up.
I popped into Oxfam and spoke to Frances. The shop obviously hasn't yet set up a Haiti aid box yet but donations can be made to Oxfam online or by phone (0300 200 1999) or to the British Red Cross (also by phone 0845 053 5353).
Many years ago, a grumpy Polishman used to repair my shoes. A visit to his 'shop', in reality a garden shed in Restalrig, always cost me more than I planned because he would invariably sell me a pair of boots or shoes. Similarly, an equally grumpy (but substantially larger) Polish seamstress used to alter my vintage Balmain frocks and other jumble sale shop finds and persuade me to buy some bric-a-brac. I don't know if this entrepreneurial spirit (or grumpiness) is a well-known Polish trait but I do miss these talented craftspeople. Last year I broke the buckle on my shoe (on a daring mission of the guerrilla type) and took them into Timpson today to have them repaired. The staff were polite enough, the price reasonable, but sadly no-one tried to sell me a one-legged doll or a pair of cuban heels.
Lesson of the day: Look up! You see more.
Tuesday
12th January 2010
The
snow has
thawed revealing lots of litter. I'm an activist, not a moanivist
so I got out my litterpicker.---
I
detest horrible 'mini-adult' clothes for children and "sexy" slogans on
girls' underwear etc so was pleased to hear of Mumsnet's Let
Girls be Girls campaign. One of it supporters
is Kids
Should Be Kids (who currently have a whopping 20% off all
stock - put the word "offer" in the redeem box).
Monday
11th January 2010
Ihad to reactivate my Facebook account in order to look at a
friend's holiday photos. I won't be reactivating. Not because
of
the photos, which were beautiful, but because of the
nastiness.
There is so much negativity and bitchiness and, the enemy of
the
emotionally intelligent:shallowness.Coincidentally, a friend called this evening who was upset as a result of some cyber bullying.
I can't help wondering where people get their sense of superiority. By being mean to a soft target?
Website of the day: Kick a Kitten - Bullies everywhere will love this - bonus points if you make the kitten cry.
Sunday
10th January
It's great that we are having a flurry of women joining the book club
but I'm wondering whether we need to restrict membership. I
can
see it reaching a point where it becomes quite unwieldy when it comes
to having discussions.The club on which ours is based has a private membership - prospective members have to be approved by the organiser. I'd rather not do that! Having said that, I read some folk's Tweets and I think "please don't join us". We currently have a brilliant membership. It's a real sisterhood of positive-thinking, clever, supportive, amazing women who are trying to be better people (as opposed to considering themselves better than other people). It would be a shame if that were to change.
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Our 2009 photos have been published here. And Nigel has updated his blog here.
Film of the Week: The Yes Men - changing the world one culturejam at a time.
Saturday
9th January
We had a nice morning with Annemarie and Jim, drinking tea and
putting the world to rights while the girls played with Esme and Max. In the afternoon I took Georgie along to the Community Centre where her nursery chum was having a birthday party. She was in her element galloping around chasing balloons, jumping on the bouncy castle and getting her face painted.
This evening we had a delivery from Natural Spice - a rare treat. It was absolutely wonderful.
Friday
8th January
School reopened today. Emily's friend called on her even
earlier
than usual - clearly looking forward to getting back to
classes.
It was exactly what they needed and the girls each came home
exhilarated.On the walk to school we heard yet another flock of geese overhead. We stood and watched the magnificent spectacle. Later this evening we were looking skywards again but this time at the International Space Station which came up at the horizon from the south-southwest looking like a very bright star.
Website of the day: E20 - will I watch this online-only Eastender spin-off?
Thursday
7th January
I'm beginning to suffer
from cabin fever.The trains are disrupted again so Nigel is at home, which is nice.
The girls are still off school which is, erm, challenging.
Nigel did the vacuuming but managed to detach the filter and blow clouds and clouds of dust which settled on every single surface...which was really rather annoying.
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One of my favourite things is listening to Radio 4 while pottering around the house. I really enjoyed the reading of "Smell my fleece" by Anna Towers, read by Claire Foy (Little Dorrit). I am on the slippery slope that leads to the Archers.
We finished off the final Christmas pudding today. We also had sardines and polenta, to which I added Gwen McGraw's wonderful tomato & chilli sauce. The kid's smothered theirs with pesto - bleurggh.
Wednesday
6th January
Points failures along the line mean poor Nigel was stuck on a
train which wasn't going anywhere fast. He did eventually get
into work and this evening arrived home late and very cold.It was disappointing to have to cancel the first 2010 meeting of Fab Wifies but unavoidable. The venue wasn't able to open because their staff were struggling to get in.
People on foot are managing to trudge around but folk used to driving everywhere are completely stymied.
Website of the day: TES Direct - this will come in handy if I need to start homeschooling...
Tuesday
5th January
The teachers returned to school today but we heard that
school wouldn't re re-opening for pupils tomorrow as scheduled because
of the severe weather.Lucy has found her little Buddha charm and, for the time being at any rate, baby Jesus, has been relegated. All I need now is for to Georgie to stop singing "Two thousand years ago in Bethlee heaven".
For tea we had Nigel's delicious tomato and lentil soup with my homemade herby bread rolls. Proper winter warming stuff.
Website of the day: Shepherd House Garden - the beautiful Inveresk gardens of Sir Charles and Lady Fraser.
Monday
4th January
Nigel went back to work. Nigel's work hadn't gone back.
Nigel returned home.
How we larfed.
Sunday
3rd January
I'm thinning out my non-fiction. It is an impossible task.
Whenever I pick up something that I think I couldn't possibly
have any reason to keep, I start reading it and decide it warrants
further consideration. And reading. And then I keep
it.Example: 'Passenger List of the Mayflower 1620'.
5.25 p.m. "There is absolutely no reason for keeping this."
5.26 p.m. "Oh look at this entry 'Dorothy Bradford, Wisbech. Drowned at Cape Cod by falling of Mayflower". "Ahhh, 'Oceanus - born during voyage"
[continues like this for several minutes]
5.30 p.m. "OK, this one stays".
Saturday
2nd January
I'm growing a little tired of Twitter. It seems to be
largely full of self-publicists, sycophants, moaning minnies and the
downright tweird. I can't understand why someone boasts of having 'got up at 6.00 a.m. and washed all the windows'. I never get the same sense of achievement from housework as i do from, well...almost anything. (Hence I have an untidy house and lots of unfinished projects).
Website of the day: Evil Twin Booking Agency - entertainment for people who think and act
Friday 1st
January 2010
We sent off for Birsley Brae armed with hot chocolate, coffee, cheese
sandwiches, Brenda's fruitcake and homemade cookies made with bits of
chopped up selection box chocolate (Fudge works best, Crunchie just
goes gooey).Emily, very thoughtfully, suggested taking a bird food chain to hang on the trees for our feathered friends. The woodland looked a little more unkempt than last year - the broken gate hasn't been repaired and there has been further damage to the perimeter fence. I'm not sure who manages it but I'd be happy to help with a bit of maintenance.
There was the usual post-Christmas flytipping of packaging and redundant items. My mantra is 'Be the change you want to see in the world' so, as we couldn't physically remove all the bags of rubbish, I reported it at landscapeandcountryside@eastlothian.gov.uk.
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Nigel has several ties, none of them particularly nice. Several of them fell out of the fugly tree and hit all the branches on the way down. We decided (ok, it was me) to have an ugly tie contest. There were seven contestants and we each scored them out of 10. The worst fashion disaster scored a measly 12 out of a possible 50. I now have to find alternative uses for ugly ties. I saw a great Instructable where someone had made a skirt out of them but that seems too much like hard work. I was thinking more along the lines of a stuffed toy or brooch then I looked at a google images and found hundreds of seriously cool things made from old ties (yes, this is how I fill my time). Take a look, there are some very creative and talented people in the world.
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Dr Who, what can I say? It exceeded my expectations but to be fair they were low. When the new Doctor appeared at the end, Lucy shouted crossly "I don't like him!". I think I said something similar when David Tennant replaced the rather delightful Christopher Eccleston.